1. Show up.

2. Talk to him/her.

3. Listen to him/her.

4. Practice radical honesty. Realize this looks a lot like radical judgement.

5. Practice radical acceptance.

6. Realize your friend annoys you and there are some things that are hard to accept.

7. Put it in perspective.

8. Maybe just try breathing?

9. Realize other people annoy you more and you actually like your friend a lot, considering, which is why you’re friends in the first place.

10. Start over.